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Here is my friend story when he school at high school. He did not know what to do about building a good relationship with friends at school. Because he is shy, so he cannot make any friends, or someone does not want to make friends with him.

Now he just have a friend, he felt so lonely, always be at room to be on-line or at home play game and watching TV or movie.

Absolutely, he needed someone who can tell him what to make some friends and keep a good relationship. My friend want to be friends with everybody and happy everyday. So, I give him simple tips and maybe can help him to build relationship and make friendships with everybody.

I told him that friends can be obtained with a simple smile. Forget all about your shyness and disappointments. Treat everything like a game where you lose or you win. When you lose, don’t feel so bad. You are going to win one day.

You can apply that with friends too. Try to look at the person near you, smile, and strike a conversation. If you win him or her as a friend, you win. If not, then there a lot of other people out there who are surely willing to be your friend.

Tips 2, I give advice him that my friend should be give your 100 percent  and you will get 100 percent, go do lots of sacrifices and you will never end on losing side.

I have earned so many good friends by this method. I give my 100 percent and do sacrifice my happiness some times for them, I feel sad for them, I pray for them. I can help them in money. That is what I can do and this is in my hand.

Or, you can try to loose your shyness and smile a lot - smiling at people always makes them be more friends towards you. Be yourself. Go out of your flat more often - if you stay inside all the time, you will never make friends. Don’t worry about what will happen if you become friends with someone, just go with the flow.

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Dealing with Teen Dating
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How supposed to do when it comes to dating this question can plague evens the most confident? One thing is for sure, everyone has their own starting point. In our life, this is one thing important for love, share, fun, or something having relax. For me, it was the first time I went out alone with someone without the safety net of my best friends sitting a few seat down in the beach.

People said that teenager when dating is a time to test out which type of partners appeal to them, and how they can negotiate a romantic relationship and share each others. So, when a teen is ready to start dating there’s often one big obstacle that they have to fight—their parents. Teen dating is something that parents have struggled with for a long time, and there are no clear answers because the world keeps changing.

Teen dating is the most sweet part in everyone memory ever. Rules must be set to both boy and girl especially when it their first date. Still many teens may look and act like an adult, but as their parents or guidance, we need to watch out any abnormality during their dating.

Remembered when you as teenager told your parents that you were going on a date for the first time they could not have been happier or maybe rejected. Parents knew that you as a teenager grows from the experience. They had the faith in you and let you know that they thought you were ready.

Here is advice for dating, before you ever accepted the invitation to your first date, it was vital to you to know something about the person. That’s where group dates came in. It was a great way for you to find out more about your crush in a safe environment.

This could well seem like odd thing to say but many parents do not appreciate how essential it is to teach teens that dating and sex are not one and the same. Teach your children (teenagers) the ins and outs of dating and sex from an early age and strengthen this message often. In particular, help your teens to appreciate that dating means getting to know the other person emotionally and not merely physically.

While teaching your children about the importance of building relationships that are based on a great deal more than just sex, it is also essential to combine this with teaching your children about safe sex.

When dealing with teen dating, do not make it worse by restricting too many rules on your children, we all been in that rebellion stage, why make thing complicated. Having some light rules will not only bring both parents and children closer, but will also make complex thing simple.

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